The joys of overcoming infertility

What is the definition of a family? I remember this was taugh to me in grade school: a family consists of father, mother , brother, sister and baby. Can husband and me fit into the definition of a family?

It is my challenge on how to build our own family. I love short cuts, but I reject the idea of adoption. Under the Hong Kong law, ivf doctors must remind patients that adoption is a better alternative to  ivf. My eyes were wide open. 

I wish I could reply: "Can't you understand why I am here in your clinic? Doctor, I want to show the world that I am not infertile. With the advanced technology nowadays, I believe you can help me. Can't you? Now, will you still want me to consider adopting?"

How to calm the untamed dragon inside me? Why do i need to prove to the world that I am infertile? Since, I really need is to fill the emptiness of OUR family, why not consider adoption? Adoption maybe cheaper than IVF + immunologic treatment combined. Adoption is a better alternative than to have pregnancy related complications. Honestly, I don't feel satisfaction when I adopt a baby.  Something is not complete. Ai... Arrogant me or flamboyant me? I need to see psychiarist . Or perhaps it is just a JCDS. Jayden' Coke Deprivation Syndrome... Will discuss this cute syndrome next time. Hehe ^.^

Lazy me says surrogacy is acceptable. Are sperm donation and egg donation acceptable to my standards?

I quietly listened as the doctor explained all the risk of ivf and its procedures. Am I ready?